October 29, 2012

Yourself

At the end of the day, who is always there for you? You.

At the end of the day, who is most important? 

I don't believe that being self centered is the way to happiness. In fact, I think those who only focus on themselves are unhappy. I think loving someone else more than yourself gives you true meaning to life. And giving someone else time, care and open ears, gives you value as a person. But while I've always lived by the message of putting other people first, I've fallen and never fully healed. It's hard to keep giving, once you have nothing else to give. Can you give love when you don't love yourself? Can you give time when you're wasting your days away? Can you give positivity when you can't find it yourself? Sometimes we spend too much time trying to fix other people. We forget that we need to spend sometime focusing on improving ourselves.

Maybe that's just how I'm feeling. And it probably is. But I guess at least I've figured it out now because I dig myself any deeper. 

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